assurance.

many girls in the world..no matter how strong u r...
the things that we r always searching for is the person who can:

take care of us
be loyal to us
treatin us like a princess
giving us a happy and wonderful life
and many many more.....

also agreeable that many girls in the world are much much more stronger and competent then most guys...then again...no matter wat there is always a missing part when that someone special hasnt come into picture...

n my point is..girls in this modern world should consider letting go certain points that may not exist in the current world when choosing ur love ones...most importantly is that he who u hav chosen must be loyal and always have the heart to give u the best things that u need..

i am still pretty lost in the sense that if i could get those life..but as days goes...as 1 year had past...i am getting more assured of that...

thanks for everything...

animal cruelty!

n it happen in my housing area! TMN JASMIN, KAJANG!
my dog, tidy was beaten by someone when he went out of my house...
yes...it is true that partly it is our fault that we hav to make sure he doesnt go out withour leash...
but then again...how could someone purposely hit my dog?

then u would say...your dog attack that person?
i can give 90% that it will not happen...
many many people who knew my dog can prove that...
all my student who most of them afraid of dog also thinks that my dog, Tidy is very friendly and safe to play with...

n not forgetting is that he is a labrador mixed golden retriever...
both of these breed was very well known as dog who r very friendly and obedient..
many ppl oversea uses these breed as care dog for blind people and etc..

so? thats y i give it a 90% that my dog will not attack people..NEVER

sadly, we dont know who did it...so ntg much that we can do...
if ever i found that person, i'll definately sue that fella eventhough i am goin to get fine as well!

IDIOT...MONSTER...DEVIL!

i am back!

Koh Samui?
actually not that fantastic...but Koh Nanyuan is a PARADISE!
wish i could live there forever...ah~~~

pictures to be up soon... :D

tmr..tomoro...tomorrow!!!!!

tomorrow is the day...ah!!!
i shall go sleep now... :D
bright bright sky and sexy beaches...here i come!

a day is over 10 days to go...

10 DAYS!!!! omg omg...

aww...

this is a story adapted from the star newspaper, heart n soul section..

My ‘tomboy’ wife
By SOH6299


Destiny brought her to his door 25 years ago. Today, he hopes to take her around the country, but not on his bike.

IT seems just like yesterday. I first saw my wife when she came to check out the room in our student house in Taman Bunga Raya, Kuala Lumpur. We were at TAR college then, and being from a small town, lodging was always a problem.

Yet this small girl with short hair and blue jeans, so shy, so cute and alone, came to look for a place to stay. It was not the school open day or the holiday season then ... must have been something to do with destiny! My friends and I agreed to accept her as we were short of one female housemate.

During the college term, we were busy with our own work and exams, so I did not say much to her and carried on with my routine of study, basketball and library. After completing my diploma, I had to move out as that was the rule in the house. I bought a Yamaha cub and move to Taman Melawati nearby.

I made the first move and asked her to go out for a movie – Indiana Jones. She said yes and jumped on my bike. But something happened that made our first date so wonderful.

After the show at Federal Cinema, as we were heading back towards Setapak, rain started pouring down, forcing us to stop at a fastfood restaurant.

That was our first, unexpected, dinner date. In our soaked clothes, we had one dinner set for two. Whenever we tell this to our children, they all laugh! Thank God she is the tomboy type – didn’t mind motorbike and wet dinner. Or maybe love is blind.

After holding hands for three years, we got married in 1987 and our first child was born in 1988, the Year of Dragon. I was not in the labour room as she refused to let me in; she said too much blood could make me faint!

You can imaging how strong she is as all our five children were born naturally. Guess what? Before they turned three, all our children stuck to me and wanted me to carry them. Whenever a baby cried, she also cried with him/her. That scene will always stay in my mind. That’s my tomboy wife!

She has a “magic” hand – anything she touches has unexpected results. I remember when I bought my first car, a second-hand Toyota DX, with cassette player. We were out driving and enjoying ourselves and she said, “Can we have some music?”

“Yes, just put in the cassette,” I replied. The next thing I knew, the cassette player was jammed. She’d put the tape in the wrong side and it was stuck.

My wife is a career woman and doesn’t like to cook. She has come out with her special “tool”. The rice pot is her one-stop centre. Not only is it for cooking rice, it’s also for frying meehoon, and boiling soup and vegetables. Easy and fast. There are three rice cookers in our house. The frying pan is not needed.

I bought her a lady’s golf set on Mother’s Day. My intention was for her to understand why playing golf takes at least five hours. This way, I won’t be questioned each time I go for golf.

But the outcome surprised me. She got crazy about golf! After hitting and practising at the driving range, she wanted to play on the course. She doesn’t mind the hot sun or walking six kilometres, and pulling the trolley along the way. On top of that, she is using my driver now because it can hit further than a lady’s driver.

She also has one dream – to put our golf bags in our MPV and go for a golf tour around Malaysia. Just the two of us. I told her we could do that when I reach 55. I never expected things to turn out like this and I think no other wife is like her.

To my tomboy wife who has been with me for the past 25 years: I look forward to having another 25 years together, never mind the ups and downs. We work together, like our golf partnership!

i love chick flicks honestly...n wats more i believe this is a true story?
so sweet...
wish i had this kind of life...

n actually...i used to be a tomboy too...
years back when i was still in high school..
just cant believe how silly am i...

it was actually a trend where those who love to be in the st. john comp squad..they would be one of the tomboys cause to be a comp squad member, all of them need to cut their hair short n same style! hahahaha...yea...so..those days when me n my friends were so into it? we did so...well...i think it is also part of the norm to see tomboys in convent school...hahaha

but then again...silly being silly...we never got in...partly we were not close to the seniors...aih...watever...i wonder y i dont join girl guide instead...

those were the days...

ps: 14days more to go!!! AH!

a sign of getting old

u know wat...when u hav more n more news about ur friends getting married,
thats a sign of urself getting older...

natural but scarry as well...because so far...
i've at least heard 4 pairs of couple getting married..
most of them i believe it is just the right age to get married..
as for another friend of mine...she is younger than me but had a experience happen in just a few months time...marriage n divorce..

really...sometimes cant blame a girl to be a bit over excited and happy about their new partner...n further more...agreed to get married when their love ones proposed them...

to be honest...i do mentally prepared if it do happen to me now...
but then again...from wat has happen to my friend...i think it is really really important to think through every single thing before signing that paper of a lifetime...

to me...the most basic things in life...
money for living...a house...a proper job...and sufficient saving is the important things to have in order to live a happy life after marriage...
if these doesnt exist...there could be chances that argument will occur...
never ever because u feel great about being with ur partner now that u take marriage as the solution...

when a person has no sufficient money to live the life they want...
tension and stress will began and u dont wanna know wat happen next...

so...do consider as much as u can before taking the big move...
love doesnt buy u a living...money does...

think again...