The feeling of gratefulness

 Was listening to 98.8fm on the way back..

A girl called to ask for opinion on how should she deal with her mom..

Her mom strongly dislike her bf and always had a fight whenever she mention about her bf..

She is feeling very down as this has happen for the past 3 years..

She is almost 30yrs old and felt that it is almost time for marriage..

But yet feeling lost as she will never get her mom's blessing..

She and her bf broke up for 4 times just because they felt that maybe their relationship will never work because of her mom..

And reason behind her mom's hate toward his bf is just because her bf comes from a single parent family and weren't rich..

I felt for her.. I was kinda like in her situation 5 years ago..

But I got to say I'm blessed.. My mom was not as stubborn as hers..

My parent knew nothing can change the fact that I like my hubby..

They have tried to stop me but my perseverance keep me from stop trying..

Yes.. My hubby was not rich and not highly educated..

But I still decided to pick him because he is one of those goodman who has extinct from this world..

I have never seen a man so patient when dealing with a bossy gf.. 

And I see his determination in doing something.. So even he have no money now.. He is trying hard to keep up..

One day, when my mom ask when will both of u get married...

I was flying in the air... Cause I knew my mom finally sees the good side of my relationship..

Also, I felt that my perseverance pays off..

Thank you mom for having in trust in me.. I know for everything u do and said it is for my own good..

I will not blame anybody if me and my hubby doesn't work out in the future.. Because I'm the one who choose my own faith.. For the moment, of course I'm hoping that we will live happily ever after.. But I always remind myself, prepare for the worst..u might never know what will happen in the future.. Only God knows and I will be faithful with what You have plan ahead for me..

Approximately 1 more month to go before the actual day.. Can't wait ☺️

i'm lucky to have you...

I pretty stress up with my current job in uni... I know in some ways it is a good experience, but to no avail, I just hate all these tedious work.. it is just ridiculous..

Ok... enough of these dramas in uni...

I am blessed with a lovely hubby and in-laws...

there are approximately 3 more months to go before my wedding ceremony which then i will be officially Mrs. Ding. Of course, I'm legally married now as we have signed the paper on the very special date 1.3.14 which represent together forever.

learned from the movie, brides war, a girl would know her fiancee better during the time when she is preparing for the wedding.. indeed, I see more good qualities in him..

as usual, he always pamper me with things that I want.. rings... furniture... room layout... wedding photos... and many more...

what makes me more touched is that his parent always try to accommodate what we needs as well!
they are willing to provide me spaces for my grand piano though at first I thought i'm going to just move my upright to his house due to limited spaces.

I was skeptical with the idea of living with my in-laws but yet feeling more assured now. my hubby knew about it, he too being a understanding hubby as he promised me if ever I feel like moving out, he would take the move. I do hope to have our own place, but at the same time felt bad if his parent have to live alone. so my only hope is that we get to live harmoniously together and for that I wouldn't mind to sacrifice my dream...

So yea.. I'm glad that I will be married soon and in fact i felt that i pick the right year to do so... so that at least I could release my studies' stress through thinking on my happy wedding preparation...

CANT WAIT.... 3 more months to go!!!!